Do you love me?
I don’t know any married person who hasn’t asked or wanted to ask their spouse this question at one time or another.
The busyness of life, and things taking up our time can put a gap in the time we spend together. Maybe most of our married lives seem to be taken up by kids, sports, errands, jobs, church, meetings, dishes, laundry…..I could go on, but you get the picture.
Feelings can be hurt and neglect of what is important to a marriage can be placed on the back-burner…and forgotten about until one of us wonders….do you love me?
As a couple, it is more important that we take care of us, than it is to make every meeting, or every game we possibly can.
When the kids grow up, and move on to begin life apart from mom and dad…mom and dad still have eachother- if they have kept their marriage intact.
Part of keeping the marriage intact and the relationship growing is to remember to love eachother, and to tell eachother of your love.
There are too many marriages ending because when the kids grow up, the couple who are left have lost what they started with because of neglecting the main relationship of the family- THE MARRIAGE.
Talking, having date nights, taking walks together…all these things can help keep the marriage relationship in good, happy, growing, working order.
Build on what you started with.
And ask if you need to…Do you love me?
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