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Comment on What is the Most Common Reason a Husband or Wife Cheats? by Dating Down Under

Dating Down Under — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 06:07:37 +0000

Sometimes, if one person is cheating, the partner also wants to cheat just to take revenge. Not everytime it may turn into divorce. I guess one reason of cheating is also that you suspect your partner is not honest with you and just want to give a piece of himself/herself.

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Comment on What is the Most Common Reason a Husband or Wife Cheats? by JM

JM — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 00:02:00 +0000

I thought financial issues were accepted as the most common cause of marriage breakup these days.

Anywho…

I’d say lack of communication is the blanket cause of cheating, really. Lack of communication about unhappiness with intimacy. Lack of communication about feelings of jealousy or inadequacy. Lack of communication about feeling a connection with one’s partner.

Comment on What is the Most Common Reason a Husband or Wife Cheats? by Boomer Chick

Boomer Chick — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:23:12 +0000

Great answer, Tim! You make a great point about the cheating being the result of after the fact of a deep issue that the two partners have to solve before they can make their marriage work. Another thing I have found is that when other soul mates come into the lives of even happily married couples, there is friction even though neither one of the parties intended it. That I believe is the main reason couples split. Not that there aren’t other reasons why couples have problems, but when there is cheating, it’s more than likely another person who has meant to come into their lives does so for a reason and that reason is to help one of the other towards an issue that needs addressing. The person doing the cheating doesn’t love his or her wife/husband any less, but needs to solve something within their lives before the marriage can go on. Just my silly way of looking at it, but no matter how much this might hurt the other if they found out, it’s a necessary step to address this problem the couple have whether they realize they have it or not.

Comment on “What’s the worst thing married couples can do to each other?” by Marci

Marci — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 02:00:45 +0000

Excellent point about the loss of trust from infidelity. It wasn’t my first thought, though. Perhaps because infidelity is so far off my radar screen that it’s not something I even think about.

My first thought was that the worst thing you can do in a marriage is not listening to each other. I mean, really listening to each other and caring enough to pay attention to and respect what the other has to say. Once you stop the communication lines, the relationship goes downhill from there. I guess from that point, infidelity might be an easy jump. Personally, I’d exit the relationship before committing adultery.